Relationship Counselling South

Sarah-Jane Shirreff

I am a Relate trained relationship and psycho-sexual therapist with over 20 years of experience. I work with couples and individuals experiencing sexual and relationship difficulties.

I believe our need for connection to others, the quality of our personal relationships, and the satisfaction we derive from them when things are working well are all key factors in our physical and mental health and well-being. Seeking help when things go wrong takes a lot of courage, especially when those problems are about the most intimate parts of our life and sex. I have extensive training and wide experience of working with problems such as :

  • Loss of desire, mismatch of desire and arousal difficulties,
  • Erectile dysfunctions; rapid and delayed ejaculation
  • Orgasmic problems
  • Dyspareunia (pain during intercourse)
  • Vaginismus
  • Sexual phobias or aversion

    Some of the areas I work with in relationship therapy include:

    • Communication difficulties (the key to success in personal relationships is how we communicate with each other)
    • Jealousy and Trust Issues
    • Anxiety and Depression
    • Affairs
    • Loss and endings through bereavement or separation/divorce
    • Being a survivor of childhood sexual abuse
    • Domestic abuse
    • Forming new relationships after a divorce/separation and impact on children and stepchildren
    • Anxiety about new relationships and repeating patterns and commitment issues
    • Managing a relationship that isn’t working.


Please get in touch or mobile 07778509744 if you feel I can help you or visit my website to read more about psycho-sexual and relationship therapy.

I offer an initial chat by phone to agree the way ahead. Currently as a result of Covid all sessions will be online via zoom and I do not anticipate this changing until early 2021. When I return to face to face I will be working in Wiltshire and Hampshire. I am also trained and able to offer therapy via email and telephone counselling. Sessions last 60 minutes and I charge £55 per session for relationship therapy and £60 per session for psycho-sexual therapy.

I am a member of The College of Sex and Relationship therapists (COSRT) and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). I have a certificate in skills for working online awarded by COSRT.

Sarah-Jane Shirreff. SJS BACP and Cosrt logos

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